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Oh, those Fantasy Fallback Crushes


Several years ago, when I started this blog I wrote about Fantasy Fallback Crushes. (https://blatherbabe.wordpress.com/2012/01/10/the-deep-lush-soul-of-an-irishman/) A fantasy fallback crush is a person you fantasize about when you’re going through a break-up, or a dry period, or maybe you’re just bored … Continue reading

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Angry Me!


I am pissed off! And more than being pissed off, I am pissed off that I’m pissed off! I so want to be done with this! I want to put all these emotions behind me and move forward! Is everyone … Continue reading

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Words


She ran into his daughter at a music festival. “Oh my god girl, how are you?” “I’m good, I’m good! How are you?” “I’m doing okay!” They hugged awkwardly. Funny how this was the daughter she had ended up connecting … Continue reading

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Letting Go?


When I embarked upon this journey of self discovery, I decided that I was going to love the men who became part of my life “fully and with all my heart” and that, when something was over, I was going … Continue reading

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All Them Fishies…


She thought she was going to get through this without having her heart scathed in the process. Nope, no such luck. With the dying down of the excitement of being with old friends in a new town came less busy-ness, … Continue reading

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GROCERY Shopping For Love


I saw a cute guy at Safeway last night. I think I glared at him. I’m sure he wondered what I could be thinking, as he looked back at me with a rather puzzled look on his handsome yet scruffy … Continue reading

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A Metaphorical Minute


The man and I have had a talk.  I woke up the other morning knowing that a talk was needed , and I lay there thinking, brooding, trying to figure what needed to be said, and how it needed to … Continue reading

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